Relaxed? Or depleted?
Relaxation and depletion are very
different, yet few yoga practitioners seem to know the difference. Virtually
every week I encounter yoga students who speak longingly of their relaxing
practice, though when I see their eyes at the close of their relaxing
practice, I see a flatness and dullness that suggestions depletion.
In discussing relaxation and
depletion, we’re squarely in the realm of subjectivity. I don’t think we’re
going to find a blood test or fMRI scan that verifies a difference between
these qualities, though I think we can all tell the difference.
When a family member or close friend
isn’t feeling well, we generally can see the depletion and fatigue in their
eyes. Sometimes we can see the change before the friend or family member even
reports feeling ill or under the weather! This seeing is a transferable skill,
and can be very useful for a yoga teacher to cultivate through practice (the
subject of another blog entry).
Just because a given yoga technique
is reputed to be relaxing doesn’t mean that it isn’t depleting. And what’s true
for one person isn’t necessarily true for everyone! I’ve seen some people flop
over a bolster for a long time and come out of the supported pose looking
refreshed, while the person next to them looks absolutely depleted. Knowing the
difference between relaxation and depletion is an essential skill for yoga
practitioners and teachers.
What bodily sensations correspond to relaxing? What bodily
sensations arise while doing a supposedly relaxing practice that turns out to
be depleting?
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